In the U.S., at this time, Dogs are considered "chattel" which means "property" or "object" like a lamp or a suitcase.
We all know, the dogs in our lives today are far from that.
So many of my customers call their dogs their furry children. Because, well, they are.
So what happens when a couple splits? Who gets the dog?
I've spoken to my friends at a local vet about this. I've also spoken to one of my favorite dog trainers. We all agree that the person who is the primary care taker for the dog (there normally is only one in a family) should get the dog. But what about the other person? That's easy. Its called "visitation."
I believe that, just like a child gets visitation with the non custodial parent, so should a dog. It is just unfair otherwise, to disrupt your pooch's life and rip anyone out of it. (unless the other party doesn't care a lick).
Here are some tips if you're heading down the Divorce lane....
1) Don't fight in front of your dog.
2) Don't argue in front of your dog.
3) Try really hard not to cry in front of your dog. It does nothing but confuses them.
4) Think of what is in the best interest of your dog, not just yourself.
5) Use your dog for comfort, but, not as a bargaining chip. Too many people do that with their kids, and that's as low as it gets. Please, don't do that to your dog.
Take a deep breath - and think - what would Fido want?
Peace & Love
Eileen
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| Please don't use me as a bargaining chip during the divorce, ok? |
